MIS- be a successful husband..

assalamualaikum..and hello everyone..today..i want to share with my new topic about 'be a better husband'..what do u understand with this topic??okay..let's me started the top ten 'how to be a successful husband'..

•  Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good that's mean when was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas?? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasulullah S.A.W.  would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.. 

• Use the cutest names for your wife that's mean a good husband must have a cute name for their beloved wives. Rasulullah S.A.W. had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings..

•  Don't treat her like a fly that's mean we never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day  which brings no attention from the husband .. until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that..   

•  If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!  that's mean this is one of the ways Rasulullah S.A.W.  used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu 'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered..

• Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often that's mean smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasulullah S.A.W. would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting..

•  Thank her for all that she does for you.. Then thank her again! that's mean take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!!..

•  Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again that's mean it may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life..

• Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her that's mean sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasulullah S.A.W. set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi Allahu 'anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel..

•  Be humorous and Play games with your wife that's mean look at how Rasulullah S.A.W. would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that??     

•  Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger S.W.T. The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best! ..

in the conclusion..Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall - to make your marriage successful..Insya Allah..~amin~..

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MIS-how to be a good friend

hey....i want to share with u 'how to be a good friend'..before i start with my topic..i want to tell meaning of friendship..u know what is friendship??okay..let me start..:)

Friendship is a relationship between two people who hold mutual affection for each other.Friendships and acquaintanceship are thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in the fields of sociology, social psychology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology. Various academic theories of friendship have been proposed, including social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.

Being a good friend is about being reliable, kind- hearted and thoughtful. In this way you'll develop and maintain a friendship that lasts for years. One good friend is priceless. Taking the time to nurture a friendship is worth every moment.

The are many ways how to be a good friend:

• be real..that mean good friendships don't arise from hoping someone else's popularity or networks will rub off on you. Rather, a good friendship comes about by being with people who connect with you at a basic level.  
• be honest..that mean  a dishonest person has no chance of having true friends because it's hard to rely or trust a person who doesn't behave in a supportive, consistent or trustworthy way. Keep your promises, do what you say you are going to do, and most importantly please don't lie!!..
• be loyal that mean if your friend tells you something in confidence, keep that confidence and don't talk about it to anyone else. It's what you'd expect in return and so be tight lipped about the matter. 
• be respectful that mean good friends respect one another and show this by being openly and mutually supportive.
• share that mean being selfless is an important part of being a good friend. Accommodate your friend's wishes whenever you can provided this is done in a balanced way in your friendship. 
• pitch in for friends during times of crisis that mean if your friend has to go to the hospital, you could help pack his or her bags; if her or his cat runs away, help to find it, if he or she needs someone to pick hi or her up, be there.
• give thoughtful advice when asked, but don't insist that your friend does as you say that mean don't judge your friend, simply advise them when they reach out for advice or when they need to hear a little tough love to keep them out of dangerous situations where they might harm themselves or others.
• listen that mean you don't have to agree just listen to what is being said. Make sure to stop talking for a moment and listen.
• step back and give your friend space that mean u must be understand if your friend wants to be alone or to hang out with other people.
• don't be selfish that mean grabbing, stealing, envying and or begging are big nos in the rules of friendship. The friend will soon get tired of this and eventually move toward more selfless people who are willing to give the same as one gets, but a good friend will not demand it, yet one might mention being tired of it. Even if you are a total wreck , don't expect constant sympathy.

as a my conclusion..To be a good friend is a skill that grows with practice. I hope the ten rules above help you to become a good friend, or remind you of some important aspects of friendship. Most of all  let each friendship light up your life in a unique way.

"Friendship Forever"....

MIS-music can help people to reduce their stress

hello....niesa here..okay...today i want to share with all of u about 'music can help people to reduce their stress'..okay before i start i want to tell with u what is stress..u know what is stress??okay..let me start..

Stress is a feeling that's created when we react to particular events. It's the body's way of rising to a challenge and preparing to meet a tough situation with focus, strength, stamina, and heightened alertness.

The events that provoke stress are called stressors, and they cover a whole range of situations — everything from outright physical danger to making a class presentation or taking a semester's worth of your toughest subject.

The human body responds to stressors by activating the nervous system and specific hormones. The hypothalamus signals theadrenal glands to produce more of the hormones adrenaline and cortisol and release them into the bloodstream. These hormones speed up heart rate, breathing rate, blood pressure, and metabolism. Blood vessels open wider to let more blood flow to large muscle groups, putting our muscles on alert. Pupils dilate to improve vision. The liver releases some of its stored glucose to increase the body's energy. And sweat is produced to cool the body. All of these physical changes prepare a person to react quickly and effectively to handle the pressure of the moment.

This natural reaction is known as the stress response. Working properly, the body's stress response enhances a person's ability to perform well under pressure. But the stress response can also cause problems when it overreacts or fails to turn off and reset itself properly.

okay..now i want to share with u the power of music to reduce the stress..The soothing power of music is well-established. It has a unique link to our emotions, so can be an extremely effective stress management tool.

Listening to music can have a tremendously relaxing effect on our minds and bodies, especially slow, quiet classical music. This type of music can have a beneficial effect on our physiological functions, slowing the pulse and heart rate, lowering blood pressure, and decreasing the levels of stress hormones.

As music can absorb our attention, it acts as a distraction at the same time it helps to explore emotions. This means it can be a great aid to meditation, helping to prevent the mind wandering.

Musical preference varies widely between individuals, so only you can decide what you like and what is suitable for each mood. But even if you don’t usually listen to classical music it may be worth giving it a try when selecting the most calming music.

When people are very stressed, there is a tendency to avoid actively listening to music. Perhaps it feels like a waste of time, not helping to achieve anything. But as we know, productivity increases when stress is reduced, so this is another area where you can gain vast rewards. It just takes a small effort to begin with.

If u have a stress u must to try the stress management:music therapy. While music therapy is an important discipline, you can also achieve many benefits from music on your own. Music can be used in daily life for relaxation, to gain energy when feeling drained, for catharsis when dealing with emotional stress, and in other ways as well.

MIS (e-commerce) - first lady

The e-commerce website that I have choose is http://zalora.com.my/first-lady.. It is the website of First lady collection.. From this website..we can get the information about their store location or their shop and the new collection from the first lady especially during the 'Hari Raya'..

Besides, we can get the information about the background of the first lady collection..The First Lady brand is synonymous with excellent quality, current designs at affordable prices. It has been a household name catering to the lifestyle needs and demands for the Malay-Muslim market since the 1990s.

An in depth knowledge of the market and the know how to anticipate the changing trends of the industry has been key to First Lady's successes.

There are currently 43 First Lady stores, 40 in Malaysia and 3 in Singapore, as well as 1 dealership store. The plan is to continue our expansion in Malaysia targeting 100 stores in the next few years. First Lady intends to open in all the cities and bigger towns throughout East & West Malaysia. It has stopped awarding franchise for First Lady and will continue to expand with only company-operated stores.

The aim is to expand First Lady into the biggest retailer and wholesaler of modern Islamic apparel in this region. And 12 April 2012 the new outlet opened at 1 Segamat Mall, Segamat, Johor.

First Lady provide the 'muslimah collection'..Such as 'baju kurung', 'jubah', 'kebaya', 'blaouse'..this is for ladies..other than that..first ladies provied for men collection also..such as 'baju melayu'..First lady also provided the accessories such as 'scarves'.. 

how to order this collection from the first lady??u must go to the http://zalora.com.my/first-lady ..and order from this website..and if u want more info about the 'first lady collection' go to the..http://www.1stlady.com.my

MIS-search engine

hello....how are u today??okay..today I want to share with u about the 'search engine'..u know about the search engine??what u understand about the search engine??if u didn't know..i want to share with u about the search engine..okay..let me start..


Search engine are program that search documents for specified keywords and returns a list of the documents where the keywords were found. A search engine is really a general class of programs, however, the term is often used to specifically describe systems like Google, Bing and Yahoo! Search that enable users to search for documents on the World Wide Web.

Typically, Web search engines work by sending out a spider to fetch as many documents as possible. Another program, called an indexer, then reads these documents and creates an index based on the words contained in each document. Each search engine uses a proprietary algorithm to create its indices such that, ideally, only meaningful results are returned for each query.

A web search engine is designed to search for information on the World Wide Web. The search results are generally presented in a line of results often referred to as search engine result pages (SERPs). The information may be a specialist in web pages, images, information and other types of files. Some search engines also mine data available in databases or open directories. Unlike web directories, which are maintained only by human editors, search engines also maintain real-time information by running an algorithm on a web crawler.

A web search engine that familiar in our life is google, yahoo!, bing,msn, AOL and ASK.